after upgrade display is too big

Not sure what else to suggest here. What graphics hardware do you have? For NVIDIA or AMD hardware it may be possible to switch to using a proprietary driver.

If you can manage to open a terminal window, you may be able to use xrandr to adjust the display size using something like

xrandr --output HDMI1 --transform 1.05,0,-35,0,1.05,-19,0,0,1

*This assumes the output device name is HDMI1 (you’ll need to get that from ‘xrandr’ first if not sure).

Reference:
https://newagesoldier.com/linux-hdmi-resize-screen-overscan-fix-ubuntu/

If that works, you may then be able to configure the required display settings at start-up.