Desktop Theme Details?

Hello I just installed kde 4.3 and as I don’t like the air theme I go to the Desktop theme details under Configure Desktop and try to change it to oxygen and get the following message "To Change your desktop theme to “(Customized)”, open the desktop appearance Settings and select “(Customized)” from the droplist. Alright so I go to the appearance icon under Configure Desktop except I can’t find the Customized droplist anywhere…anyone know whats going on? am I not looking in the right place? (though I cant think of anywhere else there would be desktop appearance settings) Thanks

Edit: Found it…had to right click on the desktop and go from there…a bit of an odd setup if you ask me but at least I’ve got it the way I like it now