The reboot made a difference. Clearly you had not restarted alsa. Look at the difference in your mixer!!
BEFORE with model=3stack:
Amixer contents for card 0 [NVidia] _____________________________________
amixer set 'Master',0 74% on
amixer set 'Headphone',0 on on
amixer set 'PCM',0 70% 70%
amixer set 'Front',0 74%,74% on
amixer set 'Front Mic',0 0% off 0% off
amixer set 'Front Mic Boost',0 0% 0%
amixer set 'Surround',0 0%,0% on
amixer set 'Center',0 0% on
amixer set 'LFE',0 0% on
amixer set 'Line',0 0% off 0% off
amixer set 'CD',0 68%,68% on
amixer set 'Mic',0 0% off 0% off
amixer set 'Mic Boost',0 0% 0%
amixer set 'Mono',0 off off
amixer set 'Capture',0 Capture 39 72% off Capture 39 72% off
amixer set 'Capture',1 Capture 39 72% off Capture 39 72% off
amixer set 'Capture',2 Capture 39 72% off Capture 39 72% off
amixer set 'Analog Mix',0 100%,100% on
amixer set 'Beep',0 100% off 0% on
amixer set 'Channel Mode',0 Items: '2ch' '6ch' Item0: '6ch'
amixer set 'Input Source',0 Items: 'Front Mic' 'Line' 'Mic' 'CD' 'Mix' Item0: 'Mic'
amixer set 'Input Source',1 Items: 'Front Mic' 'Line' 'Mic' 'CD' 'Mix' Item0: 'Mic'
amixer set 'Input Source',2 Items: 'Front Mic' 'Line' 'Mic' 'CD' 'Mix' Item0: 'Mic'
and after, with model=6stack-dig
Amixer contents for card 0 [NVidia] _____________________________________
amixer set 'Master',0 74% on
amixer set 'Headphone',0 on on
amixer set 'PCM',0 70% 70%
amixer set 'Front',0 74%,74% on
amixer set 'Front Mic',0 0% off 0% off
amixer set 'Front Mic Boost',0 0% 0%
amixer set 'Surround',0 0%,0% on
amixer set 'Center',0 0% on
amixer set 'LFE',0 0% on
amixer set 'Side',0 0% off 0% off
amixer set 'Line',0 0% off 0% off
amixer set 'CD',0 68%,68% on
amixer set 'Mic',0 0% off 0% off
amixer set 'Mic Boost',0 0% 0%
amixer set 'IEC958',0 100% off 100% off
amixer set 'IEC958 Default PCM',0 on
amixer set 'IEC958 Playback Source',0 Items: 'PCM' 'ADC1' 'ADC2' 'ADC3' Item0: 'PCM'
amixer set 'Mono',0 off off
amixer set 'Capture',0 Capture 39 72% off Capture 39 72% off
amixer set 'Capture',1 Capture 39 72% off Capture 39 72% off
amixer set 'Capture',2 Capture 39 72% off Capture 39 72% off
amixer set 'Analog Mix',0 100%,100% on
amixer set 'Beep',0 100% off 0% on
amixer set 'Input Source',0 Items: 'Front Mic' 'Line' 'Mic' 'CD' 'Mix' Item0: 'Mic'
amixer set 'Input Source',1 Items: 'Front Mic' 'Line' 'Mic' 'CD' 'Mix' Item0: 'Mic'
amixer set 'Input Source',2 Items: 'Front Mic' 'Line' 'Mic' 'CD' 'Mix' Item0: 'Mic'
Can you see the difference? I certainly can.
How many other times did you try a code, and forget to restart alsa? I recommend you start again, and go through each model one by one.
Reference updating alsa, before updating alsa, please try the surround sound suggestion I gave:
also take note of your digital audio options:
amixer set 'IEC958',0 100% off 100% off
amixer set 'IEC958 Default PCM',0 on
amixer set 'IEC958 Playback Source',0 Items: 'PCM' 'ADC1' 'ADC2' 'ADC3' Item0: 'PCM'
It may be necessary to try different control settings there.
I hope you are keeping paper notes of the various setting combinations you have tried.