Hello, I have searched all over Google and I cannot find a step-by-step guide on how to install XRDP or XVNC properly.

Basically, I have this installed on a machine on my local network that doesn't need to be connected to my KVM switch and I would like to remote into it, other than SSH, so I can use the desktop for specific things.

However, when I set up XRDP or XVNC, they all try to connect via the loopback address instead of just going straight to the desktop.

Prime example:

Is there a config file that I've missed?

When I search for ~/.Xsession, it says file does not exist.