I installed OpenSuse 11 under VMware server. Installation went fine. I then enabled "remote administration" using the GUI. I attempt to connect to the box using either TightVNC's viewer or Real VNC's viewer.

TightVNC gives me the grey bacground with the X and then immediately gives me the "disconnect from host"

RealVNC gives me the actual kdm screen though its garbled and then when i click anywhere it fails.

In my logs I get

Abnormal termination of greeter for display, code 1, signal 0